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Non-Traditional Wedding DJs In My Area:  Whatโ€™s the alternative to a standard wedding DJ that plays the same 200 songs at every wedding?  How do you find someone with more refined musical tasteโ€ฆHow do you find a DJ who can please a bunch of musicians, music snobs, former DJโ€™s, and not subject you to any โ€œwoooo!โ€ or โ€œhands in the air!โ€ nonsense?  

Weโ€™ve all been to a boring wedding where every time the DJ talks (and they talk WAY TOO MUCH!) you just cringe. Itโ€™s not all about them but they donโ€™t know it and steal the show from the wedding couple. Maybe itโ€™s their overuse of line dances or those repetitive phrases like โ€œLadies and Gentlemen, may I direct your attention toโ€ฆโ€ Can you guess what song they are going to play next before they press play because itโ€™s the same songs you have heard at all 6 of the weddings youโ€™ve attended this year? Maybe itโ€™s the glittery bow tie and vest or the 1980โ€™s style tuxedo they are wearing. Whatever it is โ€“ you know that you want something different at your wedding reception.

Non-Traditional Wedding DJs โ€“ Passionate About Music

Can you find a non-traditional Dj that is passionate about collecting music, and believes you donโ€™t need to resort to cheesy line dances or gimmicks to keep your guests on their feet and keep the dance floor packed? 

Is there such a thing as delivering you the Holy Grail of mobile DJ experience: intergenerational inclusivity, subdued professionalism, and lovingly curated sets of music.  Can you find a dynamic wedding DJ who is in tune with your unique needs, who are ready to rock your wedding in a style that transcends the typical wedding DJ mold and reputation?

How Can You Tell If Your Wedding DJ Will Be Cheesy?

If you look at their website and social media feeds and see nothing but dated photos and no posts that resonate with your style โ€“ they probably lean on the cheesy wedding DJ antics and wonโ€™t alter what they play at your wedding v. the last 10 years of weddings that they have performed at. They have a routine for everything from giving away your centerpieces to throwing of the bouquet (who does that anymore???)

How To Look For A Non-Traditional Wedding DJ

Check out their social media feeds โ€“ do you vibe with their style? If every wedding they do looks unique and they play a variety of music (not just the Top 100 Cheesy Wedding Songs) โ€“ youโ€™ve probably found a non-traditional wedding DJ. A wedding DJ should change things up based on their clientโ€™s style, the guests in front of them and with the times. That goes for both the music that they play all the way down to the look of their gear and how they dress. If they look like they came out of the 80s and havenโ€™t changed since then, you probably should move on to find a non-traditional DJ that fits your needs.

He geared the music selections accordingly, and was able to adapt during the event, as specific requests were made regarding particular songs, timing, and styles. Thanks for helping to make our wedding such a memorable event!

Wedding Budget Constraints And Your Entertainment Options

The main reason so many weddings are similar is due to budget constraints.  Many wedding couples would rather have more flowers, passed hors dโ€™oeuvres or that limo ride instead of memorable entertainment. This has made the wedding DJ become the norm.  To each their own, but I personally donโ€™t remember a single hors dโ€™oeuvres from my own wedding.  I do remember being on the dance floor and having the best night of my life.  What do you remember from the last time you attended a wedding?  


He executed our unique wedding party script perfectly and got everyone going on the dance floor! We wish we could have had the music playing all night. He was definitely a big part of our perfect wedding day.

What Do You Remember From The Last Wedding You Attended As A Guest?

I always say there are three things you remember after attending a wedding.  1.  You remember the vision of the couple dressed up and looking so in love with each other.   2.  You remember if the food was GOOD or BAD โ€“ but rarely remember what you actually ate.  3.  You remember if you had a great time, were entertained and danced the entire night or if you were bored and left early.  Iโ€™d always recommend prioritizing the budget based on where the memories are made as opposed to the smaller details.

There are many reasons why todayโ€™s couples spend more on their wedding compared to the initial wedding budget that they put together. 54% of couples increase their budget during planning, allocating funds to wedding items they fell in love with along the way. This is especially true when the initial wedding budget is set lower than reality. Many couples look back at spending more than average for vendors and they realize afterward that it was worth every penny! After all, you get what you pay for. If you look at it from the aspect of the wedding vendor โ€“ why would you charge less than average or average if you were worth more?

You will quickly find that there are luxury wedding vendors and there are cheesy wedding DJs. The rate that they charge will invariably reflect the quality level of service that you should expect from them.

He met with us several times and suggested ideas that we wouldnโ€™t have thought of. As a surprise he mailed us a thumb drive with the audio from our ceremony, the prayer from my wifeโ€™s grandfather and the speeches of the best man/Maid of Honor. He kept the night rolling and everyone on the dance floor. I would highly recommend him for any future events.

Hear What Your Non-Traditional Wedding DJ Might Sound Like At Your Wedding

Whether You Are Into Hip-Hop Booty Shakers, Indie Rock or EDM โ€“ The Right Non-Traditional Wedding DJ For You

I believe that a thoughtful mix of pop favorites, hip-hop booty-shakers, Motown classics and timeless standards are a fun and self-respecting alternative to those embarrassing and played-out dance floor wedding clichรฉ songs that none of us want to hear again.

When you have a diverse crowd with diverse tastes, you need entertainment that is flexible, dynamic and creative. A non-traditional wedding DJ will take everything that is boring and predictable about traditional events and reinvent it with years of experience. They will guide you every step of the way through the planning process for your wedding.

The key to being a non-traditional wedding DJs simply means that they are open-minded, adaptable and provide highly personalized and responsive service.  Get creative with your day and creative with a non-traditional wedding vendor.  If they embrace your ideas, run with it and make your wedding unforgettable!

BEST DJ EVER. People dancing the entire time, which is what we wanted. We had multiple people ask who the DJ was the following day. He is super professional, but also laid back and just so nice! We also did the photo booth which was AMAZING. People also used it the entire night as well. Plus the uplighting made the vibe!! Our wedding was so perfect and a HUGE reason was because Rob was our DJ!!! Canโ€™t recommend enough!!!

Donโ€™t Forget The Lighting

Whether you want the warm glow of bistro string lights or a crystal chandelier at your tented or barn wedding โ€“ we have the right lighting to suit your style.

Want some color? Ask us about our LED uplighting, tent texture pattern lighting, or hanging disco ball installations. Either way, lighting makes your wedding photos so much more interesting and add excitement and energy to your decor.

We even have high energy club style lighting for late at night when you are really ready to rip up the dance floor.

See Images Of Our Tent Lighting Design Options

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See Samples Of Our Barn Wedding Lighting

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